I love going to parties, I love hosting parties, I love being around people whether they are strangers or old friends. I realize though, that many folks would rather eat worms. Some temperaments are just not suited to gatherings and even if they are, money is tight right now and everyone is busy. Everyone is tired. I feel it too and even I am inclined lately to keep it small.
And small is good. Really good. My circle of close friends isn’t huge but to get all of them together in the same room these days is near impossible. However, I can arrange to go hiking with Jen, have breakfast that leads to an all day gab fest with Renada, have lunch with Kate, and coffee with Amy. Kelly and I spent a few hours just soaking up the sun together last week.
Not only do we love each other, but the CDC reports that social isolation and loneliness can increase the risk of everything from heart disease to depression to dementia to even early death. It is a particular risk for the elderly. My friends and I are all over fifty years old so this is one of many concerns we have about aging.
I do understand that it’s not easy, but for the better part of a year my immune system was compromised to the extent that I could barely leave the house, let alone hug a friend in a crowded coffee shop. I know how fortunate I am to be able to do so now. It is a privilege and one that I will never again take for granted.
By the way, Jen, I know you’re reading this. When do you want to go hiking again?